Public Speaking scares me.
It makes me nervous and usually when I think of public speaking, a line from Eminem’s song Lose Yourself comes to mind:
His palms are sweaty, knees weak, arms are heavy
Check. I’m rubbing down the sweat on my jeans.
Check. I’m widening my stance slightly so I don’t topple over.
Nope. But 2 out of 3 should prove my point.
Given the fact it’s one of the most common phobias out there, I’m sure there are many reasons why people would rather do anything but speak in public.
I’m not going to try and speculate. I will, however, write about
Why it scares me and what I’m learning:
Public Speaking can make you feel like you are open to everyone’s ridicule
Public Speaking is a great way to “put yourself out there”. It’s a very effective way of making you feel so exposed and at the same time you are imagining all of the things wrong with your speech.
This particularly applies when you are giving a presentation by yourself.
Practice makes it easier…
I’ve been a member of Toastmasters for roughly a year in total and I have to admit, practice makes it easier. Delivering more speeches means I’m more confident in the next one, because I think to myself: I’ve done x amount of speeches before, one more can’t hurt.
…but it doesn’t always stop the physical effects on my body
But my nerves still sometimes get the better of me. My palms get sweaty before a speech and I dread having to shake hands with the Toastmaster (MC of the evening) before my speech.
In addition, my stomach is in knots and it feels like its trying to eat itself. This feeling is at its peak about 5 minutes before I begin my speech.